To the Editor,

Recent incidents involving young people breaking into homes in our region raise a question that cuts across every culture, background, and community: what does it mean to be a good parent?

No matter where we come from or what traditions we follow, one principle is universal: our children’s actions reflect the values we teach, tolerate, or ignore at home. When a child crosses the line into harming others, it is not just a legal issue; it is a mirror held up to parenting.

Being a good father, or a good parent in any culture, is not measured by words, appearances, or claims of respect. It is measured by responsibility, guidance, and accountability. It means teaching children the difference between right and wrong, setting boundaries, and ensuring they understand the consequences of their actions, not just for themselves, but for the wider community.

When young people break into other people’s homes, it is more than mischief. It is a failure somewhere along the line in supervision, discipline, and moral guidance. While external factors like peer pressure or social challenges can play a role, they do not remove the fundamental responsibility of parents to raise their children with respect for others.

Communities are strongest when families take ownership of their role in shaping the next generation. Excuses, denial, or shifting blame only deepen the problem. Reflection, accountability, and a commitment to doing better are what create change.

If we want safer streets and stronger communities, it starts at home.

Yours Sincerely,

Paul Howard